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Which Synastry Aspects indicate marriage?

Determining marriage from a synastry chart can be challenging. Sometimes, “obvious” marriage indicators (i.e. planets in each other’s 7th house) fail to predict a couple’s future. After studying several synastry charts of married/long-lasting couples, there were a few aspects which stood out to me.

Squares to the North Node: These aspects are said to be indicators of star-crossed lovers. The nodal axis represents our life’s path: the South Node represents “where we’ve been,” while the North Node represents “where we’re going.” Squares to this axis in synastry indicate an instant feeling of familiarity and attraction to one another. It may be difficult for each person to resist the pull of the relationship. The planet person may be part of an unresolved issue the North Node is carrying from the past, and must resolve in this life.

Some examples:

  • Angelina Jolie’s Moon and Mars square Brad Pitt’s North Node
  • Paul Newman’s Sun squares Joanne Woodward’s North Node, and Joanne’s MC squares Paul’s North Node
  • Victoria Beckham’s Moon squares David’s North Node, Victoria’s North Node squares David’s vertex
  • Linda McCartney’s North Node squares Paul McCartney’s Sun, Mercury, and Jupiter
  • Cash Warren’s ascendant is square Jessica Alba’s North Node
  • Prince William’s Pluto squares Kate Middleton’s North Node, Kate’s Mars squares Will’s North Node
  • Julia Roberts’ Mars squares Danny Morder’s North Node
  • Oprah’s North Node squares Stedman’s Jupiter
  • Bill Clinton’s Sun squares Hillary’s North Node
  • Frank Sinatra’s North Node squares Nancy Sinatra’s Moon and Jupiter
  • Ava Gardner’s North Node squares Frank Sinatra’s Sun, Frank’s Jupiter squares Ava’s North Node

Planets in conjunction or opposition to another’s Vertex: The Vertex acts like a second Ascendant, while the anti-Vertex is like a second Descendant. The Vertex is often referred to as our “point of fate.” As a result, when someone’s planet or point conjuncts your Vertex or anti-Vertex, you feel drawn towards this person. The relationship feels fated, and can indeed change your life. You feel destined to be together, and this feeling can easily last a lifetime. One person’s North Node conjunct or opposite another person’s Vertex are apparently very common aspects to find among married partners.

Some examples:

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  • Angelina’s Venus/Ascendant conjunct Brad’s Vertex, Brad’s Ascendant conjuncts Angelina’s Vertex
  • Frank Sinatra’s Vertex opposes Nancy Sinatra’s Venus, Nancy’s Vertex opposes Frank’s Part of Fortune
  • Paul Newman’s Moon conjuncts Joanne Woodward’s anti-Vertex; Joanne’s Moon and Mars conjunct Paul’s Vertex. Their Vertexes are conjunct.
  • Victoria Beckham’s anti-Vertex is conjunct David Beckham’s Mercury and opposite North Node.
  • Paul McCartney’s Vertex is conjunct Linda’s South Node
  • Prince William’s Vertex opposite Kate’s Venus
  • Julia Roberts’ North Node is conjunct Danny Morder’s anti-Vertex; Julia’s anti-Vertex is conjunct Danny’s Sun and Mercury. In addition, Danny’s North Node is conjunct Julia’s anti-Vertex
  • Oprah’s Mars conjuncts Stedman’s Vertex, Stedman’s Neptune is conjunct Oprah’s Vertex
  • Hillary Clinton’s Vertex is opposite Bill Clinton’s Moon

Part of Fortune: I was surprised to see how often conjunctions and oppositions of one person’s planets or points to another person’s Part of Fortune occurred in the charts of married couples! The Part of Fortune (POF) is the synthesis of a person’s Ascendant, Sun, and Moon, so perhaps it should not be so surprising. The POF is a point that indicates good fortune. When another person’s planets or points conjunct or oppose your POF, they will likely help you increase your wealth and happiness, and achieve your goals. According to Robert Hand, the POF is also an indicator of the physical body and its relationships with the social world. Thus, it makes sense that POF aspects in synastry are often found in the synastry charts of married couples.

  • Joanne Woodwards’s POF is conjunct Paul Newman’s Sun
  • David Beckham’s Sun is conjunct Victoria’s POF, and David’s POF is conjunct Victoria’s Mars and Saturn
  • Paul McCartney’s POF is conjunct Linda’s Moon and Venus
  • Cash Warren’s POF is conjunct Jessica Alba’s Jupiter/Saturn conjunction
  • Prince William’s POF is opposite Kate Middleton’s POF, Kate’s POF is conjunct Wills’ North Node
  • Danny Morder’s POF is conjunct Julia Roberts’ Mercury, Danny’s Vertex is conjunct Julia’s POF
  • Stedman’s POF is conjunct Oprah’s Jupiter, Oprah’s POF is conjunct Stedman’s Sun, Mercury, and North Node
  • John Lennon’s POF is conjunct Yoko Ono’s POF
  • Hillary Clinton’s POF is opposite Bill’s Mercury and Saturn
  • Frank Sinatra’s POF is conjunct Nancy’s Anti-Vertex
  • Ava Gardner’s POF is opposite Frank Sinatra’s Sun and Mercury
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Sun-Venus or Venus-Venus synastry aspects: Sun-Venus contacts in synastry are highly touted by astrologers, and for good reason! When this aspect appears in synastry, the couple feels affection and love for one another. If these contacts do not show up in synastry, Venus-Venus contacts can be substituted. When one person’s Venus contacts another person’s Venus, your love styles are similar. You easily get along, and instinctively know how the other person wants to be loved. The conjunction and opposition are most potent, and the trine and sextile are powerful, as well. These aspects indicate instant love and affection for one another, as well as a feeling of joy when you are together. These aspects can indicate a love that lasts forever. When this aspect is mutual, the love is even stronger.

  • Angelina’s Venus opposes Brad’s Venus
  • Paul Newman’s Venus sextiles Joanne’s Venus
  • David Beckham and Victoria Beckham have a Venus/Sun sextile double whammy
  • Paul McCartney’s Venus is opposite Linda’s Venus
  • Prince William’s Venus trines Kate’s sun, Kate’s Venus biquitiles Wills’ Sun
  • Danny Morder and Julia Roberts have a Sun/Venus bi-quintile double whammy
  • Stedman’s Venus is sextile Oprah’s Sun
  • John Lennon’s Venus is opposite Yoko’s Sun, Yoko’s Venus trines John’s Sun
  • Frank Sinatra’s Venus squares Nancy Sinatra’s Sun, Frank’s Sun squares Nancy’s Venus

Venus/Saturn Aspects : Saturn aspects in synastry are described as « relationship glue ». Saturn is the planet of commitment, while Venus is the planet of Love. As such, couples who have strong Venus-Saturn aspects (especially double-whammies!) in their Synastry charts have little problem committing to each other. These relationships are usually long-lasting.

  • Joanne Woodward’s Saturn conjuncts Paul Newman’s Venus, Paul’s Saturn trines Joanne’s Venus
  • Victoria Beckham’s Saturn is conjunct David’s Venus, David’s Saturn is trine Victoria’s Venus
  • Cash Warren’s Saturn trines Jessica Alba’s Venus, and her Saturn sextiles Cash’s Venus
  • Julia Roberts’s Saturn conjuncts Danny Morder’s Venus, Danny’s Saturn quincunxes Julia’s Venus
  • Oprah’s Saturn quincunxes Stedman’s Venus, Stedman’s Saturn trines Oprah’s Venus
  • John Lennon’s Saturn squares Yoko Ono’s Venus
  • Ava Gardner’s Saturn squares Frank’s Venus

Thirty percent of men using an online dating service are married. At least on Ashley Madison you know what you’re getting!

An MSNBC survey states that 30% of men using an online dating service are married. Alas, women rank slightly less! Online dating sites have created a wily playground for scammers, romance artists and married men (and women) who secretly cheat on their spouses. Married men create phony profiles and present themselves as single men looking for love, commitment and marriage. They conceal their true identity with a secret email address, a secondary cell phone, and if necessary a post office box. A single woman’s best defense is to be aware of the warning signs of men who are hiding a wife, children and family dog.

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I dated a lot on Match.com and eHarmony, looking for the right man. I dealt with tire-kickers, trailer dwellers and man-skanks. My most memorable correspondence came from an online man whose profile name was TeeUp4Us. He emailed me telling me he had a successful career on Wall Street (a sweetener), he was divorced and he was in the process of moving to Middle Tennessee where I lived. He didn’t have a photo posted but he would forward me recent pictures if I would send him my email address. “You made me smile just looking at your picture and I would love to meet you,” he said.

I didn’t respond because he didn’t post a photo. A week later I received a second message from TeeUp4Us, which read:

“Hi, Jim is married. I am his wife in Pennsylvania. He is not moving to Tennessee. He just goes there during the week to work. We have been married for 3 months. We are newlyweds.”

I wrote Mrs. Teeup4Us back telling her I suspected he was married. I told her she was married to a pathological liar and consummate cheater and she should divorce him before he crushes her heart. And I told TeeUp4Us, “If you’re reading this you’re a lying, cheating scumbag.”

If you’ve used a dating site even a little bit these fishy scenarios have happened to you:

An online man emails you saying he is closing his dating site account but at the last minute he saw your profile, he was extremely attracted to you and he asks you to send him your email address so he can correspond with you. You feel uncomfortable communicating with a strange man outside a secure website. You’re right to trust instincts because the quicker an online man can garner personal information about you, the easier it is to seduce and hoodwink you.

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After a series of email correspondence with an online man, he sends you his phone number and he asks you to call him (he puts the monkey on your back because he says he doesn’t want to be forward). You call him and he doesn’t answer and he waits a day or two to return your call, or he emails you saying, sorry he missed your call but he was in a meeting, he has bad reception on his phone, blah, blah, blah. A married man has to wait to call you when he is away from his wife.

He emails you, telling you are a beautiful, fascinating woman and he would love to get to know you better. But when you click on his profile his account is closed. A married man will hop on and off of a dating website because he is afraid of being caught with his fly open.

He emails and texts and even calls you regularly for a month or more, but he never makes plans to meet you in person or he cancels his trip at the last minute. Don’t be afraid to call him out, tell him you’re not interested in a cyber relationship. Either he meet in person to see if there is a connection, or you’re off to bigger, better game.

The one thing I have come to know about married men who cheat (on and off online) is: they are uber-confident and uber-charming. They can be this way because they only want a fling and they don’t intend to leave their wives.

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There are distinct warning signs that an online man may be married (or have a girlfriend). When in doubt, ask yourself these questions:

Tip: Married men online are more likely to initiate the first contact on a dating site.

  • Does he not post a photo or is his photo dark or blurry? (He doesn’t want anyone to recognize him.)Does he post only one photo or is he unwilling to trade additional photos? (His online photo may not be his.)
  • Do you only get a cell phone number because he claims to have no home phone? Are you unable to reach him by phone at night and weekends?
  • Does he call from a private number? Do you call him but constantly go to voicemail? (An indication that he has a wife or family and it is inconvenient to talk.)
  • Are his calls and responses back to you irregular or at set times? (He calls when he is driving or at work, away from his wife.)
  • Does he say that he travels a lot and that’s why you can’t reach him by phone? Or he’s frequently out of the service area; his battery died or he was with a client? (He is controlling when you can talk to him.)
  • Will he not share his last name with you? (Maybe he gave you a phony name; the reason he doesn’t show up when you research him.)
  • Does he avoid conversations about himself, his family or upbringing? (Some men say they’ve lead a boring life, or they change the subject and they focus the conversation on you to avoid divulging the details of their lives.) I asked an online man was about his “divorce”, he said it was complicated, code for: it’s complicated because I’m married.

If you are dating a long-distance man, ask yourself these questions:

Hint: married men will date out-of-state women to conceal their immoral activities.

  • Is he taking too long to meet you in person? (That’s because he never intends to meet you face-to-face.)
  • Is he secretive about where he lives? Or you can’t come to his house because it’s inconvenient, it’s messy or he’s not ready for company? (If you’ve been dating him for a while, and he hasn’t invited you to visit him long-distance, you need to ask yourself—why?)
  • Do you get the chance to meet his friends or family? (If not, odds are you are a secret in his life.)
  • ​Does he have an excuse for not spending a holiday, his birthday or other celebrations with you? (You may an intense relationship with him, but the wife and family come first.)

The burden of proof of whether a man is single or married is on you.

I learned to pay attention to my knee-jerk instincts about an online man. I asked lots of questions and I studied between the lines. I saved a man’s emails for future reference; a liar will eventually contradict himself. I called him in the evening to see if he would answer his phone and I didn’t buy into his flimsy excuses. I asked direct questions about his work, family and friends and I invited myself to his home. If I was truly interested in a man, I ran a background check on him.

Bottom line: trust your gut. If something about a man doesn’t feel right, stop and ask yourself, WHY?

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